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Outshine the Narcissist

Break Free
From the
Confusion Loop.

Outshine the Narcissist™ is a trauma-informed program for women ready to stop replaying the past, rebuild self-trust, and move forward — without losing themselves again.

I'm Ready to Move Forward Founding member pricing — limited spots
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You're not imagining things

You left the relationship.
So why does it still feel like you're in it?

You've done the journaling. You've talked to friends. Maybe you've even been to therapy. And yet — you're still replaying conversations at 2am, still wondering if you were "too much," still questioning your own instincts.

That's not weakness. That's what emotionally harmful relationships do to the nervous system.

  • You second-guess yourself constantly — even in small decisions
  • You can't fully trust your own memory of what happened
  • You're functioning on the outside, but still stuck in the loop inside
  • You feel like you should be "over it" by now — but you're not
  • You want clarity, peace, and yourself back — and you don't know how to get there

What you experienced was real. And you can move forward from it.

Introducing

Outshine the Narcissist™

This is not a program about the person who hurt you. It's a program about you — your nervous system, your self-trust, your identity, and your next chapter.

Built on the Outshine Method™, this trauma-informed course gives you the tools to understand what happened, regulate the patterns still living in your body, and rebuild from the inside out.

No toxic positivity. No rushing the process. No shame. Just clear, grounded support designed specifically for life after an emotionally harmful relationship.

"Most coaches talk about the relationship. I talk about what happens after."

— Sommer Leigh, Somatic Trauma-Informed Coach
What's included
Everything you need to move forward — in one place.
  • 6 core modules + Faith & Release bonus module
  • Private community inside Skool
  • 2 Live Q&A Integration Calls with Sommer Leigh
  • Founding member pricing — locked in for life
  • Scientific Trauma Unlocking Worksheets
  • Private Trauma Unlocking Sessions with Sommer
  • Trauma-informed, self-paced learning
  • Lifetime access — come back as many times as you need

The Outshine Method™

Four phases. One clear path forward.

01
Stabilize
Calm your nervous system and create safety inside yourself before doing anything else.
02
See Clearly
Understand the patterns — what happened, why it worked, and why it's not your fault.
03
Self-Trust
Rebuild trust in your own perceptions, instincts, and decision-making — from the ground up.
04
Shift Forward
Reclaim your identity, clarify your boundaries, and move into your next chapter fully.

What's inside

Six modules. One complete transformation.

Each module builds on the last — taking you from confusion and self-doubt to clarity, regulation, and forward momentum.

1
See the Pattern
Understand exactly what gaslighting and narcissistic abuse look like — and finally validate what you experienced. This is where clarity begins.
2
Nervous System Awareness
Learn why your body still feels stuck, and start working with your nervous system — not against it — to create real, lasting calm.
3
Break the Confusion Loop
Stop replaying the past. Learn the tools to interrupt the loop, reality-test your thoughts, and stop second-guessing everything.
4
Rebuild Self-Trust
Your instincts were trained to doubt themselves. This module rebuilds that foundation — so you can trust yourself again, fully and completely.
5
Identity + Boundaries
Reconnect with who you actually are beneath the relationship — and build the clarity and boundaries that protect her going forward.
6
Move Forward Fully
Integration, momentum, and moving into your next chapter without the weight of what was — without going back.
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Bonus: Faith + Release
For those who want to bring their faith into the healing process — releasing what you can't control and leaning into something greater than yourself.

You won't do this alone

A real community.
Real support.

Outshine the Narcissist™ is hosted inside Skool — a private, supportive space where you learn, connect, and grow alongside women who truly understand where you've been.

🏛
Private Skool Community
Connect with other women who get it — no judgment, no shame, just honest support and shared understanding.
🎙
Biweekly Live Q&A
Join Sommer Leigh live every two weeks to ask questions, get clarity, and stay connected to the process.
📍
Self-Paced Access
Move through the modules at your own pace. Return to any session anytime. This is your journey — on your timeline.

Real women. Real results.

What clarity feels like.

I thought my life would always feel sad, shameful, full of guilt, and very little hope to change. It has been challenging to share what I've been through, but very freeing, comforting, and validating to move forward and to feel hopeful and positive. If you can choose to love life again, without fear, less anxiety, to feel hopeful — this is exactly where you need to be.
— L.H.
Private Client · Texas
Biggest takeaway: you're worth investing in. Sommer is knowledgeable, kind, and compassionate in teaching you how to reestablish your foundational worth. When coming out of abuse, you often second-guess yourself. You will learn new skills and tools to shift your thoughts and start writing a new narrative based on truth — not the lies that destruction and confusion have tried to say.
— R.A.
Private Client · Texas
My experience working with Sommer has been an incredible journey that has truly changed my life. She has not only helped me become aware of and get through my trauma from narcissistic abuse, but has helped me become a more confident person. Although it is still a healing process, I wouldn't be where I'm at without her.
— Anonymous
Private Client
My biggest takeaway is I have found a safe place to be vulnerable and to speak things I keep inside. It is knowing that I am doing something to help me — and it helps me know I won't always be in this place of hurt. It offers me hope. I would tell anyone on the fence: take a step to do something to help yourself get stronger and begin to heal. It will give you hope, and the healing will come.
— M.M.
Private Client · Texas
This type of work is unlike anything I've experienced in therapy before. Sommer has made it feel like a safe place to work through some of the "uglies" — I have not felt rushed or insecure. Learning more about my nervous system and how it affects my everyday life is so interesting. I am aware of my responses now, and when I notice a shift in how I feel, I take the time to assess what just happened. I am grateful for this process and proud of myself for intentionally dealing with the hard — even though it would be much more comfortable to push it down.
— Laura
Private Client
Sommer Leigh
Sommer Leigh

Your guide

I'm Sommer Leigh.

I'm a Somatic Trauma-Informed Coach, Narcissistic Abuse Specialist, and Mental Wellbeing Practitioner. I created Sommertime Soul Co because I know what it's like to feel stuck in the loop — and I know there's a way through it.

My work lives at the intersection of nervous system regulation, pattern recognition, and identity reclamation. I don't just help women understand what happened — I help them come back to themselves.

This program is everything I wish had existed when I needed it most.

Somatic Trauma-Informed Coach
Narcissistic Abuse Specialist
Mental Wellbeing Practitioner
Creator of the Outshine Method™

Join today

A small founding round.
Personally supported by Sommer.

I'm opening a small founding round for the first group I'll personally support through this work. There are limited spots — because I'm including 1:1 sessions. When they're gone, the price goes to $697–$997 and it won't come back down.

✦ Founding Round — Personally Supported by Sommer
$497
$997
Spots remaining: 10 of 10
Founding: $497
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Next Round: $697
Full Price: $997
One-time payment · Lifetime access · Future price: $697–$997
Outshine Framework Bundle
Everything included
  • ✓ The Outshine Framework — 6 core modules
  • ✓ The Narcissistic Pattern Breakdown Guide (60 pages)
  • ✓ Private Skool community access
  • ✓ 2 Live Q&A Integration Calls with Sommer Leigh
  • ✓ Lifetime access + all future updates
  • ✓ Scientific Trauma Unlocking Worksheets — work through each module with guided, science-backed tools
  • ✓ Private Trauma Unlocking Sessions with Sommer — personalized support to help you go deeper and move forward faster
  • ★
    Private Trauma Unlocking Sessions with Sommer Leigh
    Founding members only — private, personalized sessions to help you go deeper and move forward faster
✦ Free bonuses — included today only
The Gaslighting Tracker
The Gaslighting Tracker
$27 value
Understanding Narcissism Workbook
Understanding Narcissism Workbook
$39 value
>Total value
$1,400+
You pay today
$497
Flexible payment — because healing shouldn't be a financial stressor
Pay in full or split into easy installments with Affirm or AfterPay. Your nervous system deserves a yes — not more stress.
AFFIRM
AFTERPAY
Yes — I'm Ready to Move Forward →
Trauma-informed coach, not a therapist. This program is educational and coaching-based, not a substitute for mental health treatment.

Outshine the patterns.
Reclaim yourself.

This is the first group I'll be personally supporting through this work. Limited spots — because I'm including 1:1 sessions. When they're gone, they're gone.

Join Outshine the Narcissist™ →
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